[ this guy.... is alarmingly level-headed, for being so new and having to be made to process not just the hotel's tomfoolery, but the timeline discrepencies among the people he's familiar with.
is that a testament to gojou's teachings? or is this boy this well-adjusted in spite of gojou... ]
makes sense
the best advice i ever got here was making allies, fast so try not to shoulder too much on your own, if you can help it
[It's a bit of a both. But also- he's grown up with that kind of mindset. The one where Gojo always calls him "too serious". You get all sorts of training when you grow up with that guy as your mentor/guardian.]
I've heard that from the others as well But it feels bad to be so transactional when it comes to... everything.
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is that a testament to gojou's teachings? or is this boy this well-adjusted in spite of gojou... ]
makes sense
the best advice i ever got here was making allies, fast
so try not to shoulder too much on your own, if you can help it
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I've heard that from the others as well
But it feels bad to be so transactional when it comes to... everything.
[He'll have to learn how to #DealWithIt]
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we're all just trying to survive here
leaning on one another isn't the worst thing you can do
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I'll try my best.
I don't like relying on others, especially in an unknown place.
But since there's no other way, then it's what I have to do.
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especially if they're already used to it...
if it makes you feel any better, we're all leaning on each other in some way here
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I suppose this place is different. I'm just- not used to asking for such favors
[He can feel his ears go hot just thinking about having to ask someone for---]
That is true. I truly appreciate this conversation and all the insights.
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i won't lie and say it's easy each and every time
but i won't talk your ear off with a lecture either
you'll find your own way either way